Find Me Here, Not Everywhere: Why My Social Media Says 'None šµ'
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I often get asked "Why do you say you're not on social media but you have a LinkedIn or Github page?".
What I Mean by āSocial Mediaā
Working definition: Sites that are engagement-driven. Algorithmic feeds optimize for reactions and time on site.
But I thought you said you don't write about things you don't like?
True, I share tools, books, and ideas that I genuinely use and recommend. I tend to take the "if you have nothing nice to say ..." approach. I'd much rather have you excited to try something I discuss than try to persuede you against something.
Saying I am don't have a social media question usually begs the question, "Why?". So I thought I would address it.
The Apparent Contradiction: GitHub & LinkedIn
When considering using any service it ultimately comes down to this question:
Will this make my life better?
If it makes your life worse, then its toxic and should be avoided. If it won't make your life better or worse, then its a waste of time.
To clarify, something frivolous that doesn't harm yourself or othersālike watching a dumb sitcomādoes make your life better, because it brings you joy, relaxation, or a needed break, even if it isn't "productive" in the traditional sense.
Why GitHub Stays (Occupational Tool)
- What is it to me: version control + collaboration + transparent history.
- How I use it: issues/PRs, releases, documentation, code review; collaboration on actual work.
Why LinkedIn Stays (Directory, Not a Feed)
- What is it to me: a professional directory many collaborators/recruiters expect.
- How I use it: resume visibility, occasional updates, limited DMs;
- What itās not: a place I scroll or read.
I choose depth over feeds. Time for family and friends. Focus for meaningful work. Interest and authenticity over algorithms. I donāt spend time critiquing what isnāt for me, and I respect that others choose differently.
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